Urge Suppression Techniques for Incontinence

Understanding Urge Incontinence

Urge urinary incontinence is a type of urinary leakage that is associated with a sudden, strong urge to urinate. It is not to be confused with stress urinary incontinence (leakage with coughing, sneezing, laughing, exercise); however, the two conditions can occur in conjunction with one another (mixed urinary incontinence). Many individuals with urge urinary incontinence describe certain “triggers” to leakage such as pulling into their driveway after a long day at work, putting their key into the front door, getting up from watching a movie, or hearing water running. 

Risk factors for urge urinary incontinence include: Diabetes, BMI >30, Pregnancy, Prostate Conditions, Certain Medications (Blood pressure medications, diuretics, certain antidepressants), Smoking, Menopause,and Pelvic Surgeries 

Urge urinary incontinence affects up to 40% of women and 30% of men at some point in their lifetime.

The Role of Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy

Pelvic floor physical therapy plays a crucial role in managing urge incontinence. A specialized physical therapist can assess your pelvic floor muscles and provide personalized exercises and techniques to improve bladder control and reduce urgency.

The following questions may help guide your physical therapist in coming up with a treatment plan for you:  

  • How many times do you urinate in a day?
  • How many times do you get up to go to the bathroom at night? 
  • How much water do you drink in a day? 
  • How often do you experience urinary leakage/incontinence? 
  • What are/were you doing when the leakage happened? 

Urge Suppression Techniques

While we certainly don’t want you to try to suppress the urge to go to the bathroom all of the time, there are incidences where having some techniques up your sleeve might prevent an accident. 

Next time you find yourself waiting for a bathroom to open or a strong sudden urge to pee try the following: 

  • Diaphragmatic Breathing: Deep breathing using your diaphragm can help relax your pelvic floor muscles and reduce bladder spasms.
  • Distraction Techniques: Shifting your focus away from the urge to urinate can be helpful. Try counting backward from 100, humming a song, or engaging in a mental activity that requires concentration.
  • Quick Kegels: Contracting your pelvic floor muscles quickly 5-10x  in a row can help suppress the urge to urinate.
  • SLOW down: Stop what you are doing. If you just stood up, sit back down. If you are hurrying to the restroom, walk leisurely.  Focus on relaxing your body and breathing deeply until the urge subsides. Hurrying makes urgency worse. 

Tips for Success

  • Practice Regularly: Consistent practice of these techniques is key to improving bladder control.
  • Stay Hydrated: Drinking adequate fluids is important for overall health, but avoid excessive caffeine and alcohol, which can irritate the bladder.
  • Avoid Bladder Irritants: Certain foods and drinks, such as spicy foods, artificial sweeteners, carbonated beverages, and citrus fruits, can trigger bladder urgency.
  • Keep a Bladder Diary: Tracking your fluid intake, urination frequency, and urge incontinence episodes can help you identify patterns and triggers.

The Importance of Professional Guidance

While these techniques can be helpful, it’s essential to work with a qualified pelvic floor physical therapist to ensure you’re performing them correctly and safely. They can also provide additional support and guidance tailored to your specific needs.

Remember, you’re not alone!

Urge incontinence is a common condition, and pelvic floor physical therapy can make a significant difference in managing your symptoms and improving your quality of life. With dedication and professional guidance, you can regain bladder control and confidence.

Dena Gearhart, RN

RN, Certified Nurse Coach

Dena is a Certified Nurse Coach who specializes in helping women calm the overwhelm and create sustainable, life-giving habits that support healing and balance. With a background in ER nursing and a passion for guiding patients through meaningful lifestyle change, she brings empathy, encouragement, and practical tools to every session. Outside of coaching, Dena enjoys life on her busy homestead with her husband, three boys, and a menagerie of animals.

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Kim is passionate about helping others take control of their health through nutrition and fitness. As a dedicated group fitness instructor and nutrition advocate, she thrives on empowering individuals to break through their comfort zones and achieve their goals—both in and out of the gym. With a dynamic and encouraging approach, Kim creates an uplifting environment where people feel motivated to push past their limits, build confidence, and embrace a healthier lifestyle. Whether leading a high-energy class, a personal training session, or offering guidance on nutrition, she is committed to inspiring others to unlock their full potential and discover the strength they never knew they had.

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Certifications:

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Dr. Courteney Benck, PT, DPT

Pelvic Health & Orthopedic Physical Therapist

Dr. Courteney is a skilled physical therapist with specialized training in pelvic floor rehabilitation, orthopedic manual therapy, and neurological recovery. Her work is rooted in education, empowerment, and evidence-based strategies that promote whole-body healing. She has completed advanced coursework in bowel and postpartum rehab, coccydynia, and abdominal wall manual therapy. Outside the clinic, Courteney enjoys yoga, dance, special-effects makeup, and building computers with her husband—all while being lovingly supervised by her three cats: Boo, Bones, and Boris.

Certifications:

  • Herman & Wallace Trained Pelvic Health Physical Therapist
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  • Craniosacral Therapy, Level 1 – Upledger Institute

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Perinatal Mental Health Therapist

Annie is a compassionate therapist dedicated to supporting individuals and families through the emotional transitions of fertility, pregnancy, and postpartum. With a Master of Social Work from the University of Michigan and certification in Perinatal Mental Health and EMDR, she creates a safe, trauma-informed space for healing and growth. Annie’s approach combines empathy, education, and advocacy to help families feel seen, supported, and empowered.

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Pelvic Health & Orthopedic Physical Therapist

Dr. Kristin began her career in outpatient orthopedics before discovering her passion for pelvic health during her first pregnancy. She now specializes in perinatal care, urinary incontinence, and chronic pelvic pain conditions such as endometriosis and interstitial cystitis. Kristin’s empathetic and collaborative style ensures patients feel supported throughout their healing journey. When she’s not in the clinic, she enjoys gardening, cooking, and spending time with her family.

Certifications:

  • Herman & Wallace Trained Pelvic Health Physical Therapist
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Dr. Sarah Stine, PT, DPT

Pelvic Health Physical Therapist

Dr. Sarah is a compassionate pelvic health physical therapist who brings a trauma-informed, patient-centered approach to her work. After earning her bachelor’s in Health Sciences from Oakland University and Doctorate in Physical Therapy from the University of Michigan Flint, she pursued advanced pelvic health training inspired by her own experience as a gymnast. Sarah helps patients regain confidence and comfort through manual therapy, movement re-education, and individualized care plans. Outside the clinic, she enjoys reading, biking, crafting, and spending time with her pets, Julius, Delilah, and Simon.

Certifications:

  • APTA-Trained Pelvic Health Physical Therapist
  • Pregnancy & Postpartum Corrective Exercise Specialist
  • Trigger Point Dry Needling Trained

Dr. Jenny Jeshurun, PT, DPT

Founder & Pelvic Health Physical Therapist

Dr. Jenny is a Doctor of Physical Therapy with advanced specialization in pelvic health. Inspired by her own journey through pregnancy and postpartum, she founded Inspire Physical Therapy & Wellness and The Nest Wellness Collective to transform women’s healthcare through connection, compassion, and holistic care. Her approach blends manual therapy, functional movement, and patient education to empower individuals to heal confidently and live fearlessly. Jenny treats across the lifespan—“anyone with a pelvis”—with a particular focus on fertility, pregnancy, postpartum recovery, and chronic pelvic pain.

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  • APTA Certificate of Achievement in Pelvic Health Physical Therapy
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  • Trigger Point Dry Needling Trained